Any hip pads, or butt pads, or spanks are going to be painfully obvious. When you shop, look for clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident in how you look. Blocks of color are great for defining shape for apples and columns. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. When you are trying to build a closet you grab whatever you can. My breast size is also increasing gradually.
The transfeminine line includes a dress with a cowl neck that draws the eye to the neck and away from the shoulders.
So if you are trying to camouflage, this is not a good idea. You can get them shaped professionally, by a female friend, or by yourself with the help of a few online tutorials. Is that what you need for you, to show you my birth certificate to make you feel better? Next, boots are tricky as well.
Reach out to female friends or family members, and ask if they can help give you a makeover.