That is hard to do. Current user wait time average. At this point, you have both already started to invest in each other but aren't in so deep that you'll be devastated if it ends. Have a talk with him alone and confess with him. Trans women are so frequently assaulted and murdered after opening up about their trans identities to potential partners. Living the life of a transsexual can be really hard.
Just start using his preferred relationship term and pronoun whenever you talk about your husband.
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Finding a mate who can love and accept you as you will unfortunately not come easily.